Yes he works alot but it is for the benefit of you and the kids, I realized I have been very selfish in my actions and my emotions; I did not take into consideration that a man has to work twice as hard as a woman to accomplish goals and take care of a family. While some of us (housewives) have the luxury of sleeping late and having random naps during the day or having a spa date with the girls, we have that time and luxury while our man is out working.
Yes taking care of a house and kids is quite stressful and we do deserve those luxuries but what about your husband? how much time does he have for himself?
Our job and duties as women is to keep the family together and of course still find the time to look beautiful and keep our husbands interested.
We should do that, as a wife you need to make sure you look beautiful, smell wonderful all the time and when your man comes home he should be welcomed to that. A beautiful wife that smells wonderful and you should also have a nice hot meal prepared and something to drink, you should always ask your husband how was his day, give him a light massage while he talks about his day, make him feel interested, loved and wanted.
This is the standards of a good wife and contributes to a healthy marriage. As mentioned in my previous blogs where I wrote about sex tips and sex talk to spice up your marriage, feel free to check that out when you have some time.
Now ladies this is considered as supporting your husband, you may not be able to work and support financially but the moral support of a loving wife aids as motivation for him to work harder to make your lives happier. So next time you decide to quarrel with your husband for not making the time; you take the time and consider all the things I just wrote about and be the good wife because in the end it pays off.
So my friends keep smiling and feel free to comment and follow me on gmail, lets have fun sharing and learning.
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