SEX AFTER MARRIAGE

DATE HIM AGAIN.

Date nights are a must. Mid-week, get out of those sweats and dress up -- and no talking about mortgages, sick parents and the kids' soccer schedules. Get to know the person you married again romantically. 

TAKE A VACATION.

Get out of your routine and. if possible, go on a trip. If there's no money for anything extra, take a long walk, have a picnic dinner or visit a museum; any shared activity that you both enjoy will work. Talking bonds you.

TRY SOMETHING NEW.

Be adventuresome in bed. Try new positions, toys and fantasies. Experiment.

TELL HIM WHAT YOU WANT.

Good communication is a must -- no blame game. Unless your partner is a psychic, tell or show him what you need or want, in bed and out.

FOREPLAY BEGINS IN THE MORNING.

Things like an "I love you" in the morning, a special touch at breakfast, a "thinking of you" text during the workday, and cooking your spouse's favorite dish matter. They all count as foreplay.